At times, I feel myself so useless.. Other mothers/wives are wking outside to help to bring back a piece of bread while I've been staying at home since I got pregnant with Ashton. A SAHM is not an easy job but seems like in Singapore, people only recognise working mothers as 'human'? SAHM is machiam very useless in their eyes, just because we dont bring the bread home!

Recently I've been feeling very depressed over such issue. But it is fact that SG is such country, so 'anti' SAHM. And what are people so concern on how I'm living? My hubby dont earn a million a mth but whatever he brings home monthly is sufficient, and I can say is more than enough for us to save also, so what are these people wry abt?

And why are some people so interested of the EXACT amount my hubby brings home monthly? The next one who probe me with such qns will get the following ans: my hubby only brings home $800 every month. Super pathetic. We got not enough money to buy Milk powder, diapers and toys for my son! Satisfied?

Why are people telling me to hire a maid so I can go out to work? SORRY but I dont think I will let a maid to take care my son. At least not now when he cant even speak up for himself if the maid abuse him! And I dont agree throwing my kids to my parents/inlaws. In my opinion, I feel that if I want to give birth, I take care! That's a mother's responsibility.

Listen, It's NONE of anyone's business when I'm going back to wkforce, how much my hubby earns, and when I'm having #2! If you want to ask, ask in a proper manner and dont ask as if I'm a sinner just because I'm a SAHM! If one day you can jolly well throw your young kids to a maid w/o worries, I SALUTE YOU! (PUI!)