After being a mother for sometime, I realised that lotsa people got lotsa comments on how I handle Ashton, what I'm given and going to give him!

So many unwanted/extra comments making me wanna rant!

What brand of milk powder, diaper, injections, milk bottles, pacifier, nappy cream ALL wanna teach me which brand to use! Since I didn't ask, then why wanna 'teach' me? If I didn't ask, means I dun need you to teach mah!!!

I know many who comment on the above are mothers themselves by as a mother, don't you know that NOT any type of brand suits EVERY baby?

It does not means this work on ur child, will works on mine. It doesn't mean this suits your child, will suits mine!

Baby's aunt once intro me an organic nappy cream. So funny, Ashton dun have nappy rashes but aft using, got rashes! WTF! So ex yet will cause rashes! Why ppl always insist that whatever suit their child, will suit Ashton???

Even when Ashton was admitted in hospital previously, I was 'blamed' for not giving water to him and that caused him to be admitted! You very clever right? Go ask Ashton's pediatrician la! See if you'll kanna scold by him anot!

I did ask if I shd give Ashton some water and if those milk powder is heaty and the ans is a firm NO!!! So shd I trust those mothers who is experience dealing with 1 or 2 babies before or a pediatrician who deal and treated hundreds-thousands babies before and was on lotsa magazine forums, interviewed by many baby magazines? Okay, now YOU tell me who shd I listen to, since many ppl love to JUDGE on what they see from the outer!

As for the injections issue. Since we're willing to bring Ashton down to the clinic 1 more time, wasting our money, our time, Shd I explain more? If anyone insist that 6in1 is better (other than the money & time issue), you're free to ask for my hubby's HP number and YOU talk to him, persuade him to let Ashton go polyclinic take 6in1 lo!!!

Baby's aunt once told me "6in1 is BETTER" I wanna snap at her! Really feel like snapping at her! "who are u to say 6in1 is better? are u a pediatrician? 6in1 is only better that it saves parents' time! other than that, all e injections are the SAME"

Everyone thinks that being a stay-at-home-mum, I'm very free! Very taitai! If you really think that way, I curse you to be a stay-at-home-mum in future! Then u come and tell me whether u are a taitai anot?! Dun ask me "since u said u got no time, very tired, still got time to blog?" I curse ur internet service break down! I cannot blog huh??? I cannot sacrify 5min to type huh?? I cannot come blogger and rant izzit??? ur com or my com??? ur hse or my hse??? ur internet or my internet????!!!! ur freedom or my freedom????!!!!!

Close friend shd know that where my stress comes from and from who. If you are not my close friend, and don't know anything PLS stop teaching me what to do cause by doing so, you're adding more pressure on me, when I'm alrdy dealing with lotsa same silly comments!

If you're my close friends but dun know what's going on etc, feel free to ask me. I'll not snap at those who is really concern about me. But if u're not, then I think u better dun ask, dun say, dun comment, cause I might not say much to someone I'm not close with!